When your relationship is in trouble, one of the first thoughts is to call a couples therapist. The goal, to get help when communication, events, emotions have come to an impasse is usually what we hear.
So what works?
What I have found over the years is that there is a definitive moment: a time in the past that demonstrated a lack of caring, concern and/or connection. From that moment a resentment blossomed and despite attempts to explain and resolve the situation, it has festered and unfortunately spread to other or all areas of the relationship.
Many other factors may fuel problems. With cutting edge research working with attunement, attachment, and trauma, we gently explore and detect where things went astray and restore trust, desire, and connection.
NEW - COUPLES' IMMERSION - Due to our clients wanting a deeper, longer lasting experience than weekly therapy we have created a combination of intimacy building exercises that are get to the core of what is missing in the relationship. Working with couples for 18 years has fostered an intelligence in what works, and what is surface cognitive chatter that quickly fades. Depending on the couple, we incorporate partner dance techniques, psychodrama, integrative body therapy, mindfulness and meditation, equine therapy, art therapy and more.
Contact me today if you would like to make an appointment to begin restoring your relationship.